When your child was little, you couldn’t wait for him or her to be “old” enough to play games with you. Little did you realize that playing games now opened up a whole new world of winners and losers…and sore losers. Surely, you never thought that your kid would turn out to be “that” child” – the sore loser. Of course, it’s good to be competitive and want to win. It’s quite another thing for your child to get upset and lash out at others if he or she doesn’t end up winning. What can you do to foster a healthier response from your child in these types of situations? And no, not allowing him or her to play games any longer is not the answer!
America is the great melting pot, where many immigrants made their way to Ellis Island to escape poverty, religious persecution or political oppression to create their own opportunities. Over the years, many different cultures and ethnicities have mixed to give rise to multicultural and/or multi-ethnic offspring. As these children begin to develop, parents are sometimes confused about which language or languages their child should actually speak. At one point in time, many immigrants refused to teach their children their native language so that they could better assimilate in the United States. Although this is no longer the case, some parents continue to wonder whether they should the parents focus on English so that child will have mastery of the language by the time they get to kindergarten, or should they instead focus on the second language so that the child will have a good sense of their culture?
Many of us have experienced that horribly embarrassing moment when our toddler appears to be playing calmly with a friend when all of a sudden she takes a bite and all mayhem breaks loose. Children are crying, tempers are flaring, and you know the right thing to do is to discipline your child. Although you firmly remind your toddler that it is not nice to bite, you wonder whether this will be enough to prevent your child from biting in the future. You also wonder if she even understands why it is not okay to bite since reasoning with a toddler (especially a cranky one!) is not always easy! This is generally a delicate developmental stage for your toddler who could still be at the tail-end of teething or simply experimenting with her emotions. To help prevent your child from biting, here are a few tips:
We all want to give our children the best “shot” in life. That includes getting vaccinations on schedule. But even we parents get a little apprehensive about our children’s vaccinations. So we end up thinking that delaying the vaccinations will help the situation. However, this only tends to aggravate the situation. In fact, the older your child gets, the more he or she may become anxious at the thought of these visits to the doctor. So, how can we help our little ones overcome their fears as well as ours?
As a parent, we are sometimes amazed by the new depths of our patience. Other times, we surprise ourselves by our utter lack of patience. We are also horrified by some of the words that come out of our mouths in our moments of exasperation. But then again, while we know that we are not perfect, we also realize that we are often times overworked and exhausted. So how can we parents avoid the oh-so-common pitfalls of parenting while still trying to discipline our children effectively?
زۆری لێکردن بە شێوەى سنووردار
ئەو زۆر لێکردنە بەکاردێت بۆ ئەوەى ببیى بەو منداڵە بچووکانەى کە بتوانن تەنیا خۆشى وەرگرن لە راکردن لە دەرەوە وە یاری بکەن لەگەڵ هاورێکانیان. ئەمرۆ, منداڵان کاتى کەمیان لەبەردەستە بۆ ئەنجامدانى یارى لەبەرئەوەى زیاتر بەشدارى دەکەن لە وەرزشە رێکخراوەییەکان. لە ساتى ئێستادا دایک و باوک زۆرى
Homework – the very word makes students and parents alike cringe. Let’s be honest, the homework isn’t generally too difficult. It’s the sheer volume that is daunting. What’s even more alarming is that most schools are beginning to assign homework even earlier. Parents of PreK4 students are generally shocked to find that their preschooler has now entered an initiation year, where the primary intent is to prepare these 4-year-olds and 5-year-olds for the ensuing years of homework. Isn’t this a bit too early? Is there any basis to this early introduction to homework?
Children today are being exposed to more technology than ever before and faring better on it than their parents. But, it seems that many are engaging in less free play time than their parents. Is all of this advanced technology exposure truly advantageous to our young ones’ minds or is it somewhat detrimental to their young bodies?
It goes without saying that our actions as parents can greatly influence our own children’s behavior. While there is something to be said about your child’s natural disposition due to his or her genetic make-up, there is also quite a lot to be said about the environment in which you raise your child. Is it a calm and loving environment? Or is it one filled with stress and tension?
If your child throws tantrums, rest assured you are not alone. Most toddlers throw a tantrum at one time or another. But when this becomes an all too frequent scenario, the situation can quickly become overwhelming for any parent or caregiver. The (distant!) consolation is that most children tend to outgrow this by the age of 4 or 5. But how can you manage to live through these frightening scenes…right here and now?